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Expecting a baby and being a new dad can be an exciting and challenging times. We’re here to help

Fatherhood brings big changes

Becoming a new dad is a life-changing event. Even when change is positive, it can still be challenging. Having mixed and complex emotions as an expecting or new dad is completley normal, but these can be confronting emotions to manage.

Here you'll find useful information about fatherhood and mental wellbeing.

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Perinatal anxiety and depression in dads

Symptoms of perinatal anxiety and depression can look different for each dad.

These are some of the common signs and symptoms of anxiety and depression in expecting and new dads.

I WOULD SIT AT MY DESK FOR HOURS, WITH MY HEAD IN MY HANDS, TRYING TO THINK MY WAY THROUGH ALL THE COMPETING PRESSURES I WAS FEELING.

  • Constant tiredness or exhaustion.
  • High physical stress levels (eg headaches, muscle tension).
  • Loss of interest in things you usually enjoy (eg work, relationships, down time).
  • Appetite changes.
  • Sleep problems (unrelated to baby’s sleep).
  • Changes to sex drive and desire for intimacy.
  • Irritability, anger, resentment, frustration, moodiness.
  • Fear of looking after your baby, or avoiding caring for them.
  • Feeling rejected by your partner as they focus on caring for baby.
  • Emotional withdrawal from your partner, baby, family, friends.
  • Not wanting to communicate with your loved ones.
  • Feeling isolated and lonely.
  • Using alcohol or drugs to ‘escape’ or cope.
  • Thoughts of self-harm or suicide.

I WOULD SIT AT MY DESK FOR HOURS, WITH MY HEAD IN MY HANDS, TRYING TO THINK MY WAY THROUGH ALL THE COMPETING PRESSURES I WAS FEELING.

Calling the PANDA Helpline

What can dads expect when calling the PANDA Helpline?

When you call PANDA, we’ll provide confidential space for you to talk through any concerns you may have as an expecting or new parent, or support person.

What can dads expect when calling the PANDA Helpline?
Real life stories

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Mental health checklist

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Everyone’s experience of pregnancy, birth and parenting is unique and brings different rewards and challenges. Our mental health checklist can help you to see if what you’re experiencing or observing in a loved one could be reason to seek help.

Checklist for

Expecting Mums
Expecting Dads and Non-birth Parents
New Mums
New Dads and Non-birth Parents
Partners and Carers

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Everyone’s experience of pregnancy, birth and parenting is unique and brings different rewards and challenges. Our mental health checklist can help you to see if what you’re experiencing or observing in a loved one could be a reason to seek help.